....that is the question.
I mean, it's winter.
"Cuffing Season" as most would say. A time when everyone finds that one person to cozy up with for the cold nights that this season offers. But is that really what a person needs to do? I never understood the purpose of finding that guy to keep me company when the weather is freezing and allow him to dip off when the sun warms the world again. Like really? I noticed that my generation is so conditioned in their ways of thinking. Everyone seems pretty anxious to find that winter comrade. It's like we automatically assume things we hear from society and media are right. Either that or is this just REALLY how things are?
"Cuffing Season" as most would say. A time when everyone finds that one person to cozy up with for the cold nights that this season offers. But is that really what a person needs to do? I never understood the purpose of finding that guy to keep me company when the weather is freezing and allow him to dip off when the sun warms the world again. Like really? I noticed that my generation is so conditioned in their ways of thinking. Everyone seems pretty anxious to find that winter comrade. It's like we automatically assume things we hear from society and media are right. Either that or is this just REALLY how things are?
I'm single. And quite honestly, I don't mind it. There's no one I have to answer to, and I'm not stressing in any way, shape or form. I mean "Team Cold Sheets" does have it's disadvantages for obvious reasons but I don't want to be with just anyone. I want someone that I can see myself with. Not just for "cuffing season" but for years to come, you know, someone I can build with. I cannot see myself getting to know someone and right when we become our closest, he's finding ways to get away from me or forcing a break up because the weather is warm and he's off to "player mode" again. Naaaaa. Miss me with all that. I have a heart and I do not plan on having it broken. A girl can only take so much. Nowadays it seems people do not even mind your feelings. Wait, I'm not gonna convict every human with that statement. But there's a great majority of them like that. I cannot deal with people whose feelings change as often as my panties. I mean it's rediculous. I've gotten my hopes up too many times for failed attempts at love. So y'all have fun cuffing this season. Unless the right guy comes and scoops me I'll pass. I don't need those problems in my life and I definitely won't have them if I remain single & free. =]