This morning I woke up wishing I shared my bed with a boyf of some sort. Duhh, it's "hump day"! Naaa, I was just cold and it would have felt nice to roll over into someone's arms. Silly me huh? I was just talking about how I don't need anybody this winter. I'm so wishy-washy. But hey, everyone wants someone to hold. I'm no different.
Anyhoo, I was listening to my homie's song called "Self-Conscious"and it got me to thinking. So many females, or people, suffer from self consciousness. You know, that feeling you get when you're not 100% comfortable with being in your own skin. I mean I can admit, there was a time in my life when I was self-conscious. Having B/C-cup breasts in a classroom full of girls who could barely make out an A-cup never sat with me well. It made me feel some type of way, like I wasn't normal. Took me a while...YEARS...to accept it and realize that "heyy, this is me. I'll always be this way." Now I'm fine. For the most part I am content with myself and who I am. But I'm pretty sure there are still some people out there who's childhood insecurities are haunting them as adults. I just want to let you know that you are AWESOME however God made you. Forget what people say to or about you. They are only words and will go in one ear and out the other. This post is for everyone but it's especially for the ladies, because I know how we sometimes take people's opinions personal. I know how much we try to live up to the image of beauty that the media set for us. All I want to say is KNOW YOUR WORTH. You are special in some way that no outfit, hairstyle, or makeup can measure. Beauty is below the skin. It's not all in the exterior. Learn to be comfortable in your skin and love yourself, that's the only way you'll ever be able to love someone else.
"Don't Be So Self-Conscious...Girl You Know You Got It."