We all want it.
But what is it exactly?
It's quite indescribable.
And what do you do when that feeling f a d e s and love no longer seems like enough?
What do you do when you've reached your breaking point, or as I call it your "breakthrough" point? The time when love isn't enough to keep you near. You just want to get away because you know that it's no longer going to work..
It's never a joyous occasion when someone begins to feel this way. How do you deal with it though? Do you stick it out to keep your partner happy or do you worry about your own well being and end the stagnant affair?
I say end it. Why stay somewhere where you aren't happy? You'll only become more UNhappy the longer you do. T R Y. You can attempt to repair the damage and heal the wounds of love but if that fails, then yes, I say give it up. Boy, I swear love is powerful. We have to be careful who we give it to. Some people will take it from you and not return it, take advantage of the precious feeling you offer them in exchange for nothing but a cold shoulder. Some people will give you the greatest love ever known but still it's not enough to withhold a relationship. Love is a feeling that the even the strongest mind can't control. It makes us all soft and often blind to reality.
But when love fades? You tend to slip off that cloud you were on and realize clearly, that this may not be the best thing. I say be honest. Nothing less than 100. There's nothing more upsetting than putting on a facade for them pretending that everything is fine. It'll only cause more damage in the end.
Love is love. I know that no one wants to hear the cliche phrase "I love you but I'm not IN love with you." but sometimes that's just the way it is. And if that person honestly loves you back then they should be willing to accept the change and move on.